Destiny

You are destined to meet few people in your life. Well, is it destiny or hidden motives behind the mask of coincidences? Nobody cares. Nobody will. Most of the people have strong motives to be part of your life. You figure that out eventually. As for the rest, their motives are either well concealed or hypothetically speaking, they genuinely care!

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  1. Jigglypuff says:

    This is so you Zish! It has the essence of your Bakwas๐Ÿ˜‚

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    1. Nawazish says:

      Haha! Thank you!โค

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  2. I choose to believe, those few genuinely care…

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    1. Nawazish says:

      That’s good you have few people who really care!

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  3. There are no accidents, we meet people for a reason, we know nothing about.
    Some stay, rest leave.

    I don’t know about others, but if you see, we are both strangers to each other, but somehow we both connect so much. You came to my life to better me, you choose to understand me when I am in trouble. So God made us cross paths to be with one another and to help each other grow by mailing “Padho๐Ÿ˜‚”

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    1. Nawazish says:

      Excalty. You are always there to motivate me for studies. I am really surprised myself how well we connect and understand each other. I am really bad at expressing myself but we connect almost immediately. “Padho” mails are always helpful!๐Ÿ™ƒโค

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    1. Nawazish says:

      Thanks!โค

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  4. It is pleasant to exchange greetings and chat with casual aquaintances, to do a kindness for a stranger, to smile and encourage. it is unrealistic to expect more than that from most people we encounter. We have working relationships, people we socialize with, a few close friends and family members we care deeply about. The problems come when we have unrealistic expectations or fail to extend friendliness and kindness to others. it is then that we feel truly lonely.

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    1. Nawazish says:

      Unrealistic expectations are the real cause of unhappiness. A few close allies is more than enough for a happy life instead a vast crowd of people who are mere spectators

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  5. Kumar Harsh says:

    Voh kehte hain na bheed main bhi akela hun main, par tumhara sath adhoorepan main bhi pura hun main. Kuch waqt zarur lagta hai but eventually koi na koi aisa milta hai jo apka dhyan rakhne ko tyar hoga. ๐Ÿ˜‡

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    1. Nawazish says:

      Haha! That sounds really cheeeessssy.๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ I still believe when your own shadow leaves you in dark, everybody in your life is fleeting. They need you for something and when they have achieved what they want they leave๐Ÿ˜…

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      1. Kumar Harsh says:

        Shayad han. But maybe me being an old school romantic still thinks ki shayad sach ho yeh bhi. ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜… Duniya main toh I think har koi apse relationship kisi na kisi reason se hi bnata hai. However, aisa zarur hota ki kuch log aise reh jate jinhe apse kuch nhi chahiye hota bas apki presence jaruri hoti. Believe me when i say this. Main bhi shayad tumhare jaisa hi sochta tha. I love unconditionally and it has been harmful for me many times. But iski vajah se aise log bhi mile jo aj family hain. ๐Ÿ˜‡

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      2. Nawazish says:

        Being old school romantic is good, may be! I was always more on the practical side๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…
        Kuch log aise to milte hain that become close to you as your family. They are people you spent your max time with. But ye baad bhi bhool nahi sakte….koi dhoka dene me ek baar bhi nahi sochta. As long as people are there good, if they leave, there absence should not affect you๐Ÿคญ๐Ÿคญ

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      3. Kumar Harsh says:

        Hahaha. I know but purani adat hai nhi jati. ๐Ÿ˜… hanji yeh toh hona hi chahiye. Attachment is the root cause of all sufferings. ๐Ÿ˜‡

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      4. Nawazish says:

        Haha! Islye kise se attach nahi hona chahiye๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ bekaar logo se door raho, enjoy your mental peace and khush raho๐Ÿคญ๐Ÿคญ

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      5. Kumar Harsh says:

        Hanji. But bekar logon ke pass ake hi pta lagta voh bekar. ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜. Vaise aj aisa post kyun. Sab theek?

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      6. Nawazish says:

        Haha! Tabhi na jaise pata lage to immediately bhago un logo se๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›

        Are sab theek hain. Aap mere posts se mat judge kara karo. It’s all fictional and none of them are related to me in any way.๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

        Aap batao sab kaise chal raha?

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      7. Kumar Harsh says:

        Hahaha. Na na judge toh nhi bas socha puch lun. ๐Ÿ˜‡
        Sab badhiya ji.
        Oh sorry main bhul gya Happy Lohri. ๐Ÿ˜‡

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      8. Nawazish says:

        Haha! Koi na….friends ko puchna chahiye๐Ÿ˜›
        Happy lohri aapko bhi. Kaise celebrate kare aap?

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      9. Kumar Harsh says:

        Bas yaar aj toh kafi busy tha main ghar ake so gya and utha toh ghar walon ne jla rakha tha ghar pe hi. Main photos bhejta but idhar aengi nhi. ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

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      10. Nawazish says:

        Aapko holiday nahi mili? Ya kal milegi? Chalo atleast kuch to mila. Enjoy Kara aapne. Ek post kyu nahi banate ispe?

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      11. Kumar Harsh says:

        Yaar aj toh kafi kam tha not even a break for 10 minutes. Ankh uthane tak ka time nhi. Kal ki toh chutti hai. ๐Ÿ˜ finally.
        Hanji dekhta hun. But you know main kaisi hi post dalunga. ๐Ÿ˜… ispe toh nhi maybe koi poetry. ๐Ÿ˜… baki dekhta hun

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      12. Nawazish says:

        Busy bee!๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜› I’ll wait for the poem๐Ÿ˜„

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      13. Kumar Harsh says:

        ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜

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  6. Great post Nawaz!!! it’s the same as anything else in life and you have depicted so clearly those truths. When people care cuz they want to suck you dry or can’t live without you and it is for their own survival. Run.. then.. ๐Ÿคฃ but I do genuinely care about people with mutual exchange. Life is meant to be shared. It’s hard to let go of attachments but truly that is an ilusion and love is who we are and our only real job in life. โค๏ธ

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    1. Nawazish says:

      Haha! Exactly. Beware of the leaches๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ I think loving oneself is more important that loving someone else. Also, if you can’t love your own self, you aren’t stable enough to love someone else.

      Very few people are genuine for as long as they let us believe that.

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      1. Absolutely True!!!!! That’s our only work and then we can love others. I totally agree with you Nawaz! That is our work!!!
        They don’t know they aren’t because they need so much and when you don’t need it anymore is when you know you have reached the pinnecal of true self love. โค๏ธ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ how did you get soooo smart!!

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      2. Nawazish says:

        Excatly Cindy! I was born smart๐Ÿ˜Ž That was quite narcissistic….you should ignore that.๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

        Jokes apart, you always add a bit to my knowledge through your comments!โค

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      3. Lol!!! ๐Ÿ˜‚and witty and I like that too!
        None you need
        I Just like to sound like I know what Iโ€™m talking about. Ha ha ha
        I mean you know since itโ€™s my life work at all.๐Ÿ˜‚

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      4. Nawazish says:

        Haha! Well you sound like quite a knowledgeable person! You should be confident in what you say….people buy the confidence, your words are taken without a blink๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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      5. lol!!!! I live what I teach and after this many years and practice, it’ an extension of who I am. Thanks dearest Nawaz!!!! โค๏ธ

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      6. Nawazish says:

        You are welcome Cindyโค

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      7. ๐Ÿ˜˜ Nawaz!!!!

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  7. HappySoul says:

    People meet in life for a reason
    For a moment or a season
    Some bonds stand the test of time
    To leave a mark and stay for a lifetime ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜
    Nice thoughts Zi … people come and go .. we should chose to learn n move on I guess .. I believe in destiny to a great extent ..

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    1. Nawazish says:

      That’s a nice rhyme there. Infact the best quickest rhyme I have read.
      I too believe we should learn and let go, if not for everyone atleast for our own peace and sanity. I have fluctuating view on destiny. I believe everything happens for reason and you are the cause of it. I Don’t know if that counts as destiny๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

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      1. HappySoul says:

        ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌthank you ..
        absolutely! For our own peace!!! Many donโ€™t realise the bitter feelings is a slow poison they are taking into their own body by choice.

        I am on similar lines and to a great extent I agree. We are responsible for our responses .. but sometimes things happen differently.. a slight belief in destiny helps us looking at it in a right frame of mind

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      2. Nawazish says:

        Yeah! That slow poison works layer by layers and later becomes a severe gangrene requiring amputation. That is quite devastating at end stage.๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

        Something happens without our intervention or may be somehow we are responsible for it. I mean it always easy to blame destiny but i also believe we can change our destiny or fate by hardwork and prayers.

        There’s a saying in urdu, “Tadbeer se taqdeer badal sakti hain” translates as “you can change your destiny with your hardwork and perseverance.

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      3. HappySoul says:

        Yaa, canโ€™t control the end of gangrene.. even after amputation lil bit May remain .. and eat up further

        I believe in that too… we can change … I donโ€™t believe in destiny that way that itโ€™s responsible for many things in my life .. I use it only for areas beyond my control ๐Ÿ˜…

        I totally believe that ๐Ÿ˜€

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      4. Nawazish says:

        Yup! You know about that? You surprise me everyday with your knowledge.

        Haha! Being choosy with destiny, I do that too sometimes๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

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      5. HappySoul says:

        ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„my husband says Iโ€™m a non mbbs doctor.. there are a lot of different health problems in my big extended family and I keep asking questions on why things happen to the doc uncle who stays in the same building as us ..

        Yes Iโ€™m choosy everywhere ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œcheers to us ๐Ÿ˜‚

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      6. Nawazish says:

        All the mothers are non mbbs doctors. Sometimes my mom gives me a cause of a disease when I am telling her about it and she is not grossed out by the details. Plus, their treatments have a scientific or medical reason as well.

        You are the curious type person wanting to know everything and anything that comes across. I do the same thing. I am restless until I find answers I am looking for!๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

        You are such a inspiration. You know when I am of your age, I would really like to have thinking and understanding like you and how you handle things.

        Haha! Being choosy is great. Cheers to us!โค

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      7. HappySoul says:

        I totally believe that … my motherly instinct and remedy works well on my kids ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

        ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…cheers to that .. ya I need answers … itโ€™s hard for me to stay calm with questions buzzing around.
        This week we as a family are not going out as a person we spent a lot of time with is tested positive for covid. I just had a long talk with my uncle on how this virus behaves and why we are doing certain things ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…he was pulling my leg that even scientists wouldnโ€™t have thought so much !!
        Thank you Zi.. your words make me float high!! Iโ€™m humbled by your compliments … โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Šmeans a lot !!! Lotssa love

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      8. Nawazish says:

        Haha! The virus is so complex, it behaves so strangely, it confuses me everytime with either its presentation and treatment.

        You deserve it. I mean every word of it. Lots of love you too!โคโค

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      9. HappySoul says:

        ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ it confuses doctors … and others just donโ€™t care. I wonder if the virus is getting confused and deciding to get out of India. Bangalore numbers are decreasing ..
        thank you thank you thank you Ziiiiiiiiii โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Šmeans a lot to me ..

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      10. Nawazish says:

        Let’s hope for the best and We get to bye bye corona soon. It overstayed long as uninvited guest!๐Ÿคญ๐Ÿคญ

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      11. HappySoul says:

        ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚athithi tum kab jaaoge

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      12. Nawazish says:

        Exactly!๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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  8. Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
    POSSIBILITIES ARE GOLDEN !

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    1. Nawazish says:

      We’ll have to wait and see!

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  9. Bohot badhiya. Mast. Wah.

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    1. Nawazish says:

      Shukriya….shukriya….sab aapki duayye hain ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ˜„

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  10. Truly said ๐Ÿ‘

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    1. Nawazish says:

      Glad you agreed!

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  11. fadikkakinn says:

    completely true!!

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    1. Nawazish says:

      Glad you like it!

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  12. Olivia Ava says:

    Lovely writings. love itโค๏ธ

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  13. Yeah, there’s always a ‘what’s in it for me’

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